I have been sitting in front of the lappie for almost an hour plus yet my mind is still blank!! I have no idea where and how to start this entry.. Seriously, I am now facing a dilemma..
(1) It is not advisable to be in a relationship for too long?
This is true? Some people might say being in a r/s for too long will have no 新鲜感。。。 Everything will become a routine.. You will grow sick and tired of your partner and the r/s.. You know the person too well.. his / her actions or words are kinda predictable.. You won't want to settle down because you're so used to the routine already, there's no need for a marriage... Is this true?
(2) What is the appropriate age for a marriage?
Yes, I agree for a guy to settle down at the age of 24, 25 or even 26 is consider young.. (Yup! I see some of u nodding your head..) BUT does it apply for ladies as well? I don't know.. I have always dream of setting up a family with him ( I would really love to have a baby.. Ha!!) , own a house that belongs to us etc... BUT are we too young for all these?
Yes, I know sometimes things are beyond our control.. We need to think and consider it seriously.. Are we financially stable? Are we really ready for all these commitment? Or should we hold on and drag for another 2, 3, 4 or even 5 years?
Imagine by then we will be 28 coming to 30 years old.. Ha! Will that be better? But meaning that we will need to drag this r/s further and I have to wait for another few years? I am not young anymore and I don't wish to drag.. How?
(3) Is marriage really necessary?
What do you think? Is it a die die must have process for a couple? Is status important? Or rather is the piece of paper important? I don't want to force someone into a marriage but ended up making him upset and unhappy, leading into divorce.. You know? Maybe you will feel that I am thinking too much but life is too short for regrets... I don't want him to blame me..
(4) Am I important to him? Does he really need me? Has the feeling changed?
I think he's the only one who know the answer to this question....
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Maybe guys think further about $$$$$ etc....
... And ...
Women think of only the present and romances...
We really need to give it a serious thought...
Yes! I do love him...
After all the nasty things, quarrels, happiness and long long r/s we've been through...
The feeling is still strong.. at least for me..
Sometimes things are beyond our control....
LOVE is a four letters word that is so hard to understand...
Marriage = Commitment
Not all are ready for it...
Perhaps its too much of responsibility..
Time checked now is 0045 hours...
Monday bluezzzzzzz...........
I miss my kids...
I need their cuddles... ^^
Take care! Piggy Hugs!